敌人vs恩人

朋友转发了一个电邮给我，觉得很有意思。。

【人生】
仇人
與
恩人

給辛苦的上班族分享
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很有意思的管理故事：
仇人
與
恩人

大學剛畢業的時候，某電視公司請我去主持個特別節目，
那節目的導播看我文章不錯，又要我兼編劇。
可是當節目做完，領酬勞的時候，
導播不但不給我編劇費，
還扣我一半的主持費。

他把收據交給我說：
『你簽收一千六，但我只能給你八百，因為節目透支了。』
我當時沒吭聲，照簽了，心想 【君子報仇，十年不晚。】
後來那導播又找我，我還
【照樣】幫他做了幾次。

最後一次，他沒扣我錢，變得對我很客氣，
因為那時我被電視公司的新聞部看上，
一下子成為了電視記者兼新聞主播。
我們後來常在公司遇到，他每次笑得都有點尷尬。
我曾經想去告他一狀，可是正如高中那位同學所說，
沒有他我能有今天嗎？
如果我當初不忍下一口氣，又能繼續獲得主持的機會嗎？
機會是他給的，他是我的貴人，他已經知錯，我何必去報復呢？

後來我到了美國留學。
有一天，一位已經就業的同學對我抱怨他的美國老闆

【吃】他，
不但給他很少的薪水，而且故意拖延他的綠卡
（美國居留權）申請。
我當時對他說：

『這麼壞的老闆，不做也罷。但你豈能白幹了這麼久，
總要多學一點，再跳槽，所以你要偷偷學。』
他聽了我的話，不但每天加班，留下來背那些商業文書的寫法。
甚至連怎麼修理影印機，都跟在工人旁邊記筆記，
以便有一天自己出去創業，能夠省點修理費。

隔了半年，我問他是不是打算跳槽了？
他居然一笑：
『不用！我的老闆現在對我刮目相看，又升官，又加薪，
而且綠卡也馬上下來了，老闆還問我為什麼態度一百八十度轉變，變得那麼積極呢？』
他心裡明白，他作了
『報復』，只是換了一種方法，
而且他自我檢討，當年其實是他自己不努力。
大概前五年吧！

我遇到個有意思的事。
一位老友突然猛學算命，由生辰八字、紫薇斗數、姓名學到占星術，
沒一樣不研究。
他學算命，當然不是覺得算命靈驗，而是想證明算命是騙人的東西。
原因是有一位非常著名的大師為他算命，算他活不到四十七，
他發誓，非打爛那大師的招牌不可。

你猜怎樣？
他愈學愈怕，因為他發現自己算自己，也確實活不長。
這時候，他改了，他跑去做慈善，說：
『反正活不久了，好好運用剩下的歲月，做點有意義的事。』
他很積極地投入，人人都說他變了，
由一個焦躁勢利的小人，變成敦厚慈愛的君子。

不知不覺，他過了四十七、過了四十八，而今已經五十三，
紅光滿面、生氣勃勃，比誰都活利健康。
「你可以去砸那大師的招牌了！」 我有一天開他玩笑。
他眼一亮，回問我：
『為什麼？』
又笑笑：
『要不是那人警告我，照我以前的個性，
確實四十七歲非犯心臟病不可，他沒有不準啊！』

各位年輕朋友！
你喜歡逞強鬥狠嗎？
你總是心有不平嗎？
你有
【此仇不報非君子】的憤恨嗎？
一點心得
你要知道，
【敵人、仇人】
…都可以
【激發】你的

【潛能】，成為你的【貴人】。
你也要知道，許多怨仇、不平，其實問題都出在你自己。
你更要知道，這世間最好的 『報復』，就是運用那股不平之氣，
使自己邁向成功，以那成功和
【成功之後的胸懷】，
對待你當年的敵人，且把敵人變成朋友。
當
『冤冤相報何時了』的
【雙贏】
，
能成為
【相逢一笑泯恩仇】的
【雙贏】
。
不是人生最大的成功嗎？

是不是：如果你是正確的，你的世界就是正確的？

这些故事真的无时无刻都在发生。妈妈常常告诉我，多一个敌人不如多一个朋友，这个道理也是一样的。面对敌人会比面对朋友开心吗？换一个角度来看，世界会更加美好。。。

Malaysian's childhood....

I was talking abt childhood memories on my way back from sch v wanxin. Coincidentally i read this from my fren.. edit to suit my own childhood...

If you are Msia's 80s baby,read throughthis,

we grew up watching Transformers, Doraemon who speaks malay (TV3), Woody Woodpecker,Chipmunks, Mickey Mouse, Jem, Mask,Ninja Turtles,Ultraman n not forgettin POWER RANGERSn BUGS BUNNY!!!

had to brush our teeths during recessat primary school? had to hold plasticcups, line up with your classmates sideby side and start brushing our teethsat some open area... or maybe near somedrain??

do you still remember that we had'dentist' rooms where we had to haveourteeths check?not to forget our 'program minum susu'in primary school.. everybody issupposeto buy like cartons of milk that costed30 cents.. and you would see everyonedrinking it everyday...its d UHTmilk

the teachers who would want to punishus must use yellow rulers to hit us onour palms?? 1 metre length..that a bowl of mihun soup or some souponly costed 40 cents at the schoolcanteen... add one fishball u hv to pay 10cents more...

went to some sundry shop near theschool or to the 'roti' man waiting outsideourschools so that we can buy junk foodlike chickedees, mamee, ding dang withsome toys in it, 'Ti Kam', ice-creamandwe would play games like monopoly, uno,old maid, and all other card games likethat...

another fun time would be duringPendidikan Jasmani. the boys wouldplay football while the girls wouldplay netball... and it would be like wewere playing in the world cup...but of course. the best would be mainguli, batu seremban, bottlecaps, ice-cream sticks, 'Pepsi Colaone-two-three', Cops and Robbers, mainkejar-kejar duduk,getah... and for thenot so active, those kind of 'bookgames' where we would use buku latihanto draw and ask our friends to play...

do you remember the ice-cream tubeswhich are actually ice and colouringthat are sold for 10 to 20 cents.. thecolourful ones.. where you usually biteoff the top to glup it down.orangetastes b best..(pop-ice)what about days when we felt like doingnaughty things such as folding papersso small to make 'lastik' amd shooteach other... how about throwingchalks??

in computer class, we were still using 4 inches (forgot e actual size) floppy disk to copy games like NINTENDO..

May ah lan jie jie rest in peace...

Yesterday morning, cousin ah lan passed away... quite shocked when mum told me. She s still young, around 30+, not married yet..
It was quite unexpected for me, even though i knew tt she had leukemia since last year
however, during this chinese new year she still visited us, looked well..
my aunt was so sad tt she fainted for a few times in e hospital.
Haiz.. i think she s my most capable cousin from my paternal side, n closest to my family cos her job s in the same field as my dad's business

She merely caught a cold.. then fever... then that's it.. Her funeral s tomorrow.. I wonder my aunt s strong enuff to face it. Bai tou ren song hei tou ren...really painful
Life s so fragile..
Treasure everyday, enjoy ur life while u still hav it..

SYF!!

Today s harmonica band's BIG day!!!
We went for Harmoc SYF!
I was really high in e morning, cos we hv been practising hard, jz for this day!! yeah!!
CHoir was really nice to lend us their comfortabel choir room as holding room.. so we get changed, prepare, rehearsal....... N set off!!

reached there.. saw RJ n hwa chong n NJ ppl..
wow RJ's gals wore dress somemore..looks nice!
anyway, not quite in e mood to look at other ppl... focus...
very soon, it was our turn to enter tuning room
played for e vry last time b4 our turn
erm.. quite nice

line up at backstage.. while NJ was playing
wow they played very well!!! but that shall not affect my mood.. steady..
finally it's our turn!!
smile!! walk swiftly n confidently!!
started to play.. music of the night. Nice one..no mistake n i enjoyed playing on such a grand hall
much much much better than my previous experiences in AJ hall, AJ audi, AJ square...
next song macarena. Hui MIn's solo was good, no mistake!! feel happy for her cos b4 this she jz couldnt get some notes right
another enjoyable moment.. i conciously sway my body as i play.. hehe b4 tt we reminded ourselves to look immersed in e music.. there i was!! second song finish.. there was a small mistake.. but i dun think it affected much (eh u-know-who, u know i mean it!! u were great!)

then we watched other JC playing. VJC was good, quite creative n entertaining.. e rests... not very special

finally... results r announced..
AJ harmonica band, got a SILVER!!
well.. not very surprised, after comparing v other schs..
some of us were happy, some were sad
for me.. i m quite neutral
i did think of getting a gold. But after watching others, i think silver s fair
n i wasnt sad, cos we really really did our best!! n i think the feeling to hav a whole band working towards a same goal s amazing!
nvm juniors.. u all mz jiayou o!
we cant break d silver record, but sustained it...

however... i still rmb when our batch of exco was elected.. we promised to get a gold...
sorry..

My food drawer...

went out v wan xin eu choon wei ken... supposed to buy stuff for family day

ended up buying a lot of food for personal consumptin...

then.. as i put e food into my drawer...

i realised

i really

hav a lot of FOOD!!!!!

c lah... tell me how to not gain weight???

PW results!!

our dear AJC gave us a surprise... PW results s released!! n shortly after announcement, we got our results.. Our dearest PW teacher, ms sabariah was smiling away when i walked to foyer to c my results..

yeah i got A!!! so happy!! i think i nv get any A before since i study in AJC..except Napfa.. haha so pathetic right? my group of 5, 4 got A n one got B. Erm.. quite happy already.. although i feel quite "sayang" for her.. 1506 s one of e best classes.. we hv As n Bs only!! yeah!!

a scholar class didnt do well.. n their teacher was so upset.. haiz y mz scholars do well huh? it s jz normal ok... n there s sth tt i m not quite happy v is someone actually said tt those who didnt get A deserve the results bcos the results s e reflection of their effort.. well.. the person jolly well know how he/she has done during the period of PW.. anway, despite results, i agree tt i learnt really a lot thru PW.. especialy presentation skill n EQ..

btw........
i m sick again........
aiks......... cannot tell mum if not she will b worried n nag me....
hv been sleeping for the whole day n didnt go DE training... feel much better than last night!!

女人最爱的7种男人

女人最爱的7种男人

一、风趣幽默的男人最美。在女人生气或者遇到挫折时，幽默的男人定会别出心裁地利用语言和行动让她破涕为笑。
二、宽容大度的男人最美。宽容的男人能够毫不吝啬地包容女人的过失，能够宽待体谅周围的人。三、顾家爱家的男人最美。顾家爱家的男人会系一条围裙穿梭在锅碗瓢盆间，虽然样子看起来有点平庸，但对妻儿的那份关怀跃然其间，更能够让人感到实实在在的温暖。
四、沉默稳重的男人最美。越是那种口水乱溅的男人，越办不成大事；行动在前、声音在后的男人，往往不声不响间便做了一大堆的事。
五、辛勤工作的男人最美。因为这时，男人不但表现出了他不断进取的精神，更体现了他那敏捷的思维，干脆利落的处事方法，把工作做得出类拔萃的决心。
六、忠贞不移的男人最美。在当今商品时代，欺骗和背叛的事情越来越多，忠诚就越发稀少与重要了。对家庭对女人忠贞不移的男人必定能够吸引众多女人爱慕倾羡的目光。
七、处事不乱的男人最美。在危急关头能挺身而出、镇定自若的男人，必定能让女人感到安全可靠，成为她的主心骨和避风港。

对我来说，处事不乱的男人很美，因为我这个人遇到问题是最容易手忙脚乱，即使以我本来的智慧是可以解决的（臭美。。。）问题也会被复杂化。。所以我觉得处事不乱的男人很美

然而，能够让我成为更好的人的男人最美！！
当我的思想开始钻牛角尖时能够把我拉出漩涡，当我只看到负面时能指引我看向光明。。。

这样的男人不是没有，是我够不够好，配不配得上的问题。。。

Harmoc concert s over.. n my job s going to reach maximum point~~

Teacher-in-charge has been calling me numerous time after concert...

Realise that i hv to rush out things as early as wed.. especially when we dun go to sch on mon n tue, hv to do our e-learning stuff at home...

however... a success in concert s the thing that matters most...

seeing harmoc s bonded as a band, i feel so contented...zhi zu...one of the songs we played last night

last night b4 i slept, e songs kept on replayed in my brains....

Harmoc+guitar concert!!!

yeah finally harmoc combine v guitar concer s over.. i m soooo relieved now!! (although i hv to close e account as soon as wed.... v everything done...)
overall i think it was good, at least it was up to my expectation.. although there r some small screw up here n there.. but i feel tt it was really much better than my imagination
n e most important thing s... i hear my frens screaming my name!! wow cool!!! although i cant c them, but their support s there!!!
alright i m super tired n want to sleep!!!
byebye blog!!



btw today i went to e dark audi, late at night, only v wan xin n elin, after it was cleared n locked..quite scary.....

愚人节快乐!

昨天在宿舍的周会时，忽然收到朋友的SMS:明天是bio spa你知道吗?正式的！！”
我被吓到了2秒，然后才察觉自己上当了
心有不甘，于是就骗了另外4位。。。呵呵3个上当！！

结果呢，这个谎话就一直传啊传，wan xin身为bio rep也不停的收到同学来确认的sms..她也很合作的骗了人家几分钟。。。

晚上，和william chat时，告诉他我后悔下午没有骗他，午夜12时后就没得骗了
他说，还好没骗他，因为有一个传说是中午12点前骗人，被骗的人是 april fool,12点后骗人的人是april fool...
糟了,我在12点过后骗了这么多人！！！
又是等了2秒，我才想到我又被骗了

william我要扁你了！！你最好短期内不要来新加坡！！！