high salary woman~

heard from a fren tt her sis jz broke up v bf.. one of the main reason s her sis earns much much more than e guy!!
alamak.. how can this s e reason huh...
do guys hv such strong self esteem?
next time har.. if i earn more than my bf, i will not tell him.. hehe.. jz keep e money to myself~~ such a briliant idea.. can spend e money on my own n not making him feel sad....

well... this shows tt i m a good gal...

一些想法。。

有人说对别人宽容就是对自己残酷
以前，我很赞同这句话，所以常常会对别人有很大的期望，而且要求多多
结果，换来的是别人对我的残酷

后来，我改变方法，能忍则忍，大事化小，小事化无
表面上我忍得住，但是心里却忍到精疲力尽。。。
有时不是心理，是生理上的疲累。。
这验证了对别人宽容就是对自己残酷

人与人的相处是一门非常深奥的学问，不是哪一位大师哪一所名校能教的，要靠自己慢慢摸索，找出窍门。还有一点我觉得很有道理的是：相见容易相处难。。。大概是要让两个人慢慢磨掉自己那刺人尖角后才能和平相处吧?不然就要学着如何裹上厚厚的保护层，避开摩擦。。。可是，人不是应该坦诚相对的吗？

宽容和残酷的平衡点在哪里？坦诚还是遮掩到什么程度是最好的？
我还是捉不到。。。

Blood stains~~

Any idea wat happened? haha.. leying played badminton without wearing shoes.. n this s e consequence!! so scary.. she didnt aware at all until e badminton court s filled v patches of blood stain~~~

School Graduation Certificate..

I was writing my SGC when i suddenly feel like writing blog..
Haiz.. SGC s really a great opportunity for those who like to boost their achievement to do so.. every sentence u write, u hv to phrase it in e way tt ppl will feel tt u r such a wonderful, 天上有地下无....

flipping through my senior's SGC, i realied tt throughout the college life, i didnt hv much "achievement", all i hv r many many many activities. Ａs i write, many memories flashed back in my mind.. well.. how good can SGC reflect ones' quality? i m not sure.. everyone s trying hard to "sell" himself.. i guess our future employee will hv the ability to b critical to all these writing, if they went thru Project Work n did "Evaluation of Material", know how to assess e reliability of data... haha...but wat i know is that i really learnt a lot in my JC life... tough, yet enriching

haiz.. can i write sgc in an emo tone?? i m better in writing emo articles, not factual essays.. as reflected in my poorly written GP essays n my "artistic"articles published in books...

070707 a chinese drama

070707.. a wonderful date~~!! but i had a normal saturday..
however i went to tiong bahru plaza to watch a chinese drama.. e feeling was great!! soft breeze blew on my face, sitting on traditional "tikar mengkuang", i took a sip of free chinese tea while enjoying e amusing n sarcastic drama. E main theme s to "suan" singapore gov for things happen recently like increase in GST, building casino but ban mahjong competition, general election tt alwayz gives same results... n singaporean's attitude like dun want to participate in politics, elitism, n recent cases of ppl commiting suicide by jumping into MRT tracks..
some abbreviations they used:
GST=government says thanks
ERP=easy-easy raise price
NETS=now everyone tam sim

n many many more~~~

had a great night!! but e only bad thing s i went there alone.. as i was watching, how i wish i hv someone sitting beside me n laugh v me!! well.. bo bian lah.. ppl around me doesnt seem to hv interest in chinese drama.

if i were to study in singapore U, i think i will join them in acting!!!

报纸

从大概5岁起，我就开始看报纸了。。。呵呵，5岁的小娃娃认得出几个字？
我就从讣告开始看，因为里面最多数字，什么孝男孝女的男字和女字啊，农历几月几日啊，我都还看得懂。小小的我会把报纸摊开在地上，整个人坐在报纸上面大声朗读，遇到不懂的字还要念“不懂”--所以我的新闻报道就是”。。于3月初五寿不懂正不懂~~~~”

后来长大一点了，认的字也多了，就开始看节目预告。好像在看故事书一样，很精彩哦！！然后，为了要验证我从报纸文字上了解的是对的，我就会看电视节目（呵呵，很堂皇的藉口~~）

再大一点时，我才开始看新闻，但看得也是大柔佛版，哪里的路灯坏了没人修，谁家的孩子失踪。。。都是些小小的新闻。。渐渐的，上了高小，老师要我们参加什么常识比赛，为了那个金光闪闪的奖杯，我终于开始读“正式”的大新闻。当然，国际新闻我还是看不太懂，但是轰动国内的新闻我还是略有所闻的。记得4年级时还参加了剪报比赛，当时刚好是台湾921地震，我就和组员作了一本关于地震专辑，赢了一个小小的奖杯。。。

渐渐的，看报纸成了我的习惯。我们全家一天没有报纸就会很不舒服，因为大家起床后刷牙洗脸后就是看报纸，已经成了生活的一部分。每次公共假期前夕爸爸就会去买另一家报社的报纸，好在假期早上也有报纸可以看。其实正份报纸里面我最喜欢的是副刊，可说是百科全书，应有尽有。从食谱，家居生活，医疗保健，生活品味，到升学情报，旅游介绍，从寓言故事，爱情小说，武侠小说到社论，马华创作。。。。看得我目不暇给！平时看电视妈妈都会唠唠叨叨说我浪费时间什么的，看报纸就绝对不会！！呵呵，对我来说这是很好的消遣哦！

上了中四，我还当上了学生记者，常常会看到自己的报道或是创作见报，开心得很啊！还有一些稿费当报酬，真的是很不错！只是赚到的钱都还不足我跑学记活动~~~

现在去到了新加坡，看报纸变成了功课，必须阅读来应付我的general paper,加上看的是英文报，我的兴趣也没那么浓厚了，因为~~我觉得好像又回到了那个“不懂不懂”年代，好多字看起来都很陌生。。。。常常在图书馆里看新加坡的华文报，总觉得少了很多该有的东西，排版看不惯，用字不是太过浅白，就是太“中国”，看起来很不是味道。。。每次假期回家，我都会兴致勃勃地翻出旧报纸来慢慢看，还是马来西亚的华文报办得好！！但是比较起来，马来西亚的英文报就太逊了~~~感觉上就像看新加坡的中文报一样。。

无论如何，看报纸的确为我的华文打下了稳固的基础，语文能力也因为报纸变强了，当星洲学记的日子也让我学到了很多待人处事的道理和宝贵的经验。